Overview

Love yourself more to an extend of walking away from your past, don’t let that be a hindrance of you being jubilant in life, because life introduces us to different people not necessarily the ones we want to meet but they are placed there for different reasons.

What does love mean to you? Let me ask what does being loved mean to you? Physical Emotional and Spiritually, that is in case you have that phrase in your dictionary.

We can all define that phrase using various definitions we have come across but allow me to use the definition that I am used to, Love is the deep feeling of affection that you have for another person, it is lasting attraction that goes beyond the surfaces and turns into emotional attachment. Defining the key words that I want to focus on, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something, affection gentle feeling of fondness or liking while emotional can be defined as a strong feeling deriving from ones’ circumstances, moods or relationship with other.

 Being this old enough haha, the kind of news we have all grown up watching or even the kind of stories we have been  hearing and part of my own experiences sometimes I feel like love doesn’t exist to some people out here, or is it that some confuses it with lust which is an instant physical attraction that leads to an overwhelming feeling of sexual desire for someone you cannot see clearly and even someone quite plain, thanks to the rush of hormones, we intend to confuse love and lust to an extend of forgetting or is it ignorance to appoint where we don’ t even care about taking the life of another person?

Love quadrangle that leaves people dead, mostly the young youth whom we need to be set of example to our young ones.

Nice people out here don’t necessarily meet nice people. I wonder why sometimes life treats us so badly while we have all the good intentions of loving right, yah somethings we do it because life showed us the middle finger at an early age but that doesn’t justify why we should dwell on it, everyone has that dark side but it doesn’t define them, or does it?

We all have these type of friends who are in relationship but still have this   “mpango wa candle “or some are just in a relationship because of what the other partner can

Offer the or what they are gaining from it. Some are in relationship just wasting other people’s time or may be just to be in “for the squad”, doing all this because someone else broke your heart so you are taking your revenge on someone who only wants to love you and be happy.

Believe me or not the society today is full of broken hearts that surfaces everywhere, getting in to a relationship it’s like a death trap that everyone is insecure of what will happen or what awaits them.

WRITER: Charity