Overview

Sometimes expressing what we feel can be a bit of work especially when you have been made to believe that feelings might not be all that you thought there was,you feel lied to all your life. But how about we look at the positives from love and dating and not all about pain and agony at least for now for me,so far so good.

More often than not expressing our feelings and desires takes alot more than we think or we could ever imagine of and once you decide to express your feeling and emotions there are two things involved, it's either you'll be happy or heartbroken this happens when you decide to trust someone with what you feel for them.A set up otherwise called dating.

When I talk about feeling, I have to admit it's been awhile since I felt something. I have decided to share with you my dating life because I want you to understand me as we engage,in this otherwise a very sophisticated topic. I want you to feel with me and work towards helping and talking . What we all feel is as a result of what we want to do.

We have all been in love one way or another, whether it was true or not well that's a story for another day, personally I don't believe so much in love that it exists really but I have dated quite a lot most of which did end well for me at least,but it has been nasty at the same time yet still I'd date again and again.Now somebody would ask why?

Why would I continue with the same stuff and probably end up with the same result at the end of it all,I know people, friends who got their hearts broken at the first attempt and have never tried again.At the same time I know friends whose hearts they say have been smashed into pieces yet they still give love another chance hoping that someday that one person will come there way to cure it all for them.

The more our feelings become so hard to explain , the more we tend to feel somewhat heavier in the heart then we get consumed by our own feelings bit by bit slowly,what am I driving at,

You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or keep making the same bad choices over and over, due to an unresolved issue from your past. Or maybe you’re not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don’t feel confident enough.

I say believe whatever keeps you going and definitely makes you happy just do it,as for me this hullabaloo of heartbroken, I haven't been able to experience it I guess you could say I'm lucky,but how do I go on from date one to another or rather relationship 'A' to relationship'B'?

I move on, that's it. When I leave A I go onto B from ground zero what do I mean by this,I take flaws and lessons learnt from previous relationship at the back of my mind and try to do better in the next relationship, this helps in ensuring I don't repeat the same mistakes I might have made in the last relationship, but this has to be done with moderation knowing that these two individuals are completely different personalities and that's why I have to start from scratch,that way you get to learn and mature as you get towards courtship and finally marriage.

For those who do believe in love,I believe it was meant to be a beautiful thing and for some of us who don't yet, we're getting there and therefore it  doesn't always have to end in tragedy.

WRITER: Felix