Overview

what was supposed to be a fun girls night out turned out to be one of the worst
experiences for Raha. Safe to say next time dont date someone without doing a little digging.
Read the story below for the crazy experience.

My dating life? It’s been more than chaotic I have way too many but here’s one for a
start.......When life hands you increasing responsibilities, you get cut off from a lot of your
social life, when the day i could finally hangout with my bestfriends came, we planned
perfectly for the best girls night out. We like to look pretty for each other so i rocked my best
outfit and subtle makeup. I took that last look at myself before the uber arrived and i loved
what i saw it is important to feel beautiful without being told so. The uber arrived and i was
on my way. Halfway there, i had this bad feeling about the evening ahead but that anxious
feeling was very insignificant to the fact that i was about to have a night like those highschool
nights that i so enjoyed.

I arrived at the cafe and sure enough these lasses hadn't arrived yet. At this point im either too
punctual or they're just down right latecomers. But in a fair amount of time they arrived one
after the other. "Oh my good looooord i have missed you girls so much." Beverley shrieked
as she sat down. "Ok girls first things first" i waved to a waiter who came to take our orders.
We like to mix up cocktails taste each others drinks, i had missed all that girly stuff really.

"So I'm hearing you haven't gone out with anyone since Jama....." "No sis and lets not make
that a topic" i really didn't want them to know i wasn't over my ex. I took a sip of my drink.
"Check out that girl over there, she looks like she's about to beat the living shit out of
someone, look how she's fuming." Shirley pointed to the entrance. Missy looked really mad
as i laid my eyes on the guy following the angry beast, something clicked in my mind.
"Sisters we might have to throw hands today."

She saw me and zoomed to our table. She
banged the table"Raha!" I tried not to look intimidated, i really did until she reached for her
handbag and removed a taser,i froze. I'm the kind of person who shuts off when in panic. Where the hell was security, the
waiters. I stood up and only did i realise then from the dizzy spell how tipsy i was. "Is this
what it's come to? Grow the fuck up miss" So what had happened was, a guy who was a total
stranger followed me on the gram(even the begining sounds childish i know) the guy
occasionally liked my photos, commented nice things, acceptable really nothing disrespectful
and i liked some of them replied thank you and what not. I saw his page too and yes i
checked for a girlfriend but in all 86 posts and stories, there was no sign of him being in a
relationship.

Out of nowhere, a certain female started liking my posts and liking the comments he wrote,
she even went as far as to text me saying i should block 'her man' because he kept liking my
pictures, mind you i did not know any of these people.

The irrelevancy of her and her man
compared to my real life problems caused me to pay no mind to any of them and this is what
it resulted to. I should have blocked both of them when she first texted. "I'll kill you before i
let you have my man" she waved the taser at me and i felt my soul leave my body i wasn't
ready for such an accident. "Ok if you didn't know it's gonna be three against one you should
now, we're all together here" Shirley was always ready to fight. Everyone looked entertained
by this scenario, it almost looked like a show.

"So what are you accusing me of huh? I have nothing to do with you or your man" i really
wanted to know because i think she scared the poor guy off of social media in general. "Babe
that's enough please, lets go somewhere else and talk about this, you know she isn't even
involved in this" "you finally said something i was beginning to think you're mute. I replied
to the guy who finally graced us with his words. " Aha, so you guys have a crack in yourclearly unstable and toxic relationship and you feel the need to involve me? You lot need
couple therapy thats what."
She put her weapon back and and i released a huge sigh of relief i could not in my worst
nightmares think I'd suffer with such fate. "Honey listen you're in a relationship with this man
not me if you tell him to block me and he fails to do so then then that ain't my problem" i
gulped the rest of my seven deadly sins cocktail and walked out with my friends. I wasn't
about to give her another chance to remove that weapon and actually use it. I wasn't even in
the mood to go out anymore. All i could think of was why i didn't block the both of them
when i had the chance.

Long story short ladies if a woman reaches out and tells you to stay away from her man whether he
is your friend, lover or even if he just lingers or lurks in your social media accounts abeg just press
that block button it isnt worth it at all. There are crazy people out here who could show up at your
doorstep with worse than a taser...........

WRITER: Raha