Overview

Many of us are struggling with pickup lines once we get a match. Remember first impressions matter. According to my study many conversations end someone’s interest from the first approach.

If you're a woman, "Hi" will usually get a response. The problem is, it will be an equally boring response. Make online dating more fun by trying one of these instead:

Many of us are struggling with pickup lines once we get a match. Remember first impressions matter. According to my study many conversations end someone’s interest from the first approach.

If you're a woman, "Hi" will usually get a response. The problem is, it will be an equally boring response. Make online dating more fun by trying one of these instead:

1. Make your profile attractive. Attention-grabbing profile, Strong pictures highlighting all your best traits, check. You’ve got all the pieces to the online dating puzzle in place – now it’s time to take the plunge and start a conversation.
2. Make the introduction Catchy.  If you’re one of those who’s been leading with      “Hey, baby” or “you are beautiful”, you already know that doesn’t work. Your message needs to grab her attention, tickle her curiosity, and make her want to know more about you. You also want to make it easy for her to respond, and the best way to do that is to ask her questions that she can easily respond to. Be unique and creative in your questions.
3. Things to avoid on first conversations:

>Don’t write multiple paragraphs. She’s not going to read it, and you don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard to impress her.

>Don’t compliment her looks (that’s what all the other guys do, and it doesn’t work for them either)

>Don’t ask her out in the first message, she wants to get to know you before meeting you in person.

1.  Be consistent: What if, despite your best efforts, she doesn’t respond to your juicy message? Don’t worry – it happens many times. Maybe she forgot, maybe she’s out of town      or maybe she’s busy. After a day or two, send her one more message. You’d want to let her know that you’re genuinely interested in her, but you don’t want to appear desperate for her response. That’s major turnoff, so keep it light-hearted.
2. Know the right time to release the bullet: When she responds to your Juicy message, there’s an easy formula to keep the conversation flowing towards a date: Comment on her answer to the question you asked. Answer it yourself so she learns something about you as well. Ask her something else. How many messages should you exchange before you ask her out? You don’t want to pressure her or scare her off by asking too soon, but you don’t want her to lose interest by taking too long or asking too many follow-up questions with no end in sight.

To get her to say yes, you have to ask her out the right way. Preface your question by making a statement you're certain she'll agree with, as that puts her in a “yes” mindset, then give her two date choices: Never suggest meeting in a club or drinks “alcohol” lunch dates or dinner come in handy and let it flow.

Created and edited by: Reuben Kiprono

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